Vince A - A for asshole

The facts: We met in Feb at the judge’s order. The judge was wrong about everything. Reunification was halted because it failed and was causing undo problems for Lance. The psychiatric evaluations pointed to the problems. Counts should have done due diligence and read through the history under Rozner. Lance played you when we went to the mall. As soon as we went back to our vehicles, Lance remarked that you were trying to buy his love. Everything you bought he got rid of. He only took it to pacify you. He was pissed that you bragged about how much you made and that he had a budget of $3000.00 and recognized what you were trying to do. At the house when you came, I locked the deadbolt at his request because he didn’t want you forcing him to go with you. All the other exists were wide open. No one has ever manipulated him because no one needed to. He saw what you did to him and his mother. He talks to his friends. He knows. Later when the cops were called on that Aug Saturday, Lance made the choice. By that time, Lance had already changed his name as per NM law which grants that power to anyone 14 years and older. We then met with you on Sunday the day after because I explained about the court orders. The half truth in court about not coming because the cops were called is shot down since we met the next day AND you came in September of 2025. Then you stopped once you had the judgment for Gen to pay. That is all you were after. Punish Genny. In Sep 2025, at that meeting, I told you YOU were alienating Lance by your abusive behavior of using the courts for force visitations. I explained you should build a relationship through letters and such which you have not done. Hell, you even claimed you were going to write but never did. Regardless of what the courts believe, we all know your actions concerning Lance are about abusing Genevieve and not about having a relationship with Lance. You have done nothing over the years to make a relationship. Remember I was there for reunification and know it failed. I was there through all the counseling. I was there for all visitations. I was there and I know the truth. Your abusive behavior and attitude caused all your failures with Lance. No one else had to say or do anything. Genny never manipulated Lance. Your belief that the first ordered meeting went well was simply wrong. You were fooled. Lance got you. The phone was never ordered by the court as was claimed today. Duffin simply stated the phone had to be turned on. She failed to say it had to be charged or answered or used. We know by how the phone was set up you were trying to use it to track Lance and possibly record him. Lance and the rest of know you recorded everything proving what a piece of work you are. Lance knows. Hell, he’s really good with modern technology. So you got the money paid based on insinuations, and outright lies that had no evidence. Believing something happened is not evidence that it happened. NM law allows anyone 14 years and older to get mental health help, go through transitioning, change their name and many other things. Both judges were incorrect in not accepting Lance’s decisions concerning you. Both judges failed to properly evaluate the case, to read the history of the case, to recognize the abuser, and then the abuse Lance by forcing him to interact with someone who had abused him and his mother physically and mentally. May you receive your just rewards.